Divorce Procedure Guide

Depositions in Illinois Divorce

A deposition is your first time testifying under oath. How you perform can make or break settlement negotiations and trial outcomes.

What Is a Deposition?

A deposition is sworn testimony taken outside of court. You sit in a conference room with the attorneys, a court reporter, and possibly your spouse. The opposing attorney asks you questions, and everything you say is transcribed and can be used at trial.

Think of a deposition as a dress rehearsal for trial with real consequences. Opposing counsel is evaluating your credibility, finding weaknesses in your case, and locking you into testimony they can use against you later.

Deposition Preparation: The Golden Rules

Listen Carefully

Wait for the entire question. Make sure you understand it. Ask for clarification if needed. Never answer a question you don't understand.

Answer Only What's Asked

If asked a yes/no question, answer yes or no. Don't volunteer extra information. Don't explain. Don't ramble. Short answers are good answers.

Tell the Truth

You're under oath. Lies will come back to haunt you. If you don't know something, say so. If you don't remember, say so. Never guess.

Don't Guess

"I don't know" and "I don't remember" are acceptable answers if true. Guessing creates testimony that can be used against you later.

Don't Argue

The opposing attorney may try to provoke you. Stay calm. Don't argue. Don't be sarcastic. Judges read transcripts, and demeanor matters.

Don't Look at Your Attorney

Looking at your lawyer before answering makes it seem like you need coaching. Know your facts. Trust your preparation. Answer directly.

Common Deposition Topics in Divorce

Financial Questions

  • Income from all sources
  • Assets and when acquired
  • Debts and who incurred them
  • Spending habits and lifestyle
  • Business ownership and valuation

Custody Questions

  • Daily parenting routines
  • Who handles school, medical, activities
  • Discipline approaches
  • Concerns about the other parent
  • New relationships and their role

Marriage Breakdown

  • Timeline of problems
  • Allegations of misconduct
  • Affairs or new relationships
  • Attempts at reconciliation
  • Why the marriage ended

Document Questions

  • Authenticity of documents produced
  • Explanation of financial records
  • Text messages and emails
  • Social media posts
  • Communications with third parties

Illinois Deposition Rules

3-Hour Time Limit

Illinois Supreme Court Rule 206(d) limits depositions to 3 hours. Additional time requires agreement or court order.

Notice Requirements

Reasonable written notice must be given. The notice specifies date, time, and location. Video depositions require advance notice.

Objections

Most objections are "reserved" - noted for the record but the witness still answers. Instructions not to answer are limited to privilege and harassment.

Preparing for Your Deposition?

Proper preparation is essential. Schedule a prep session to review likely questions, practice your responses, and understand what to expect.

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